In a certain city lived a man who did everything for show. He loved being envied. He spent large sums of money on his wardrobe just so others would gape in envy. He constantly bought the latest gadgets, even ones he didn't need at all. At home he had accumulated many outdated models of phones, computers, and tablets. They had gone out of fashion and that's the only reason he didn't use them.
All complexes, as we know, originate in childhood. Our hero grew up in a poor family. His parents worked multiple jobs and tried to give their children the best. But the family was large. Money was constantly lacking. Often the children wore hand-me-downs from older brothers and sisters. And our main character was the youngest in the family, and he most often had to wear old things.
At school he was mocked for this. So he firmly decided that he would achieve success in life and never again be the subject of ridicule.
And that's what happened. He worked tirelessly: finished school with straight A's, entered a good university and graduated with honors, and then found a well-paying job. But everything he earned, he essentially spent on unnecessary things.
He didn't help his parents and older brothers and sisters, even though he had the means. He was ashamed of his poor relatives. And when they asked him for help, he increasingly refused them.
A few years ago our hero met a wonderful girl. She was not only beautiful, but also well-educated—a true princess. It was not shameful to be seen with her in public. Everyone envied him, because meeting such a girl is truly a great rarity.
March 8th was approaching and our character decided to throw a celebration, not an ordinary one, but one that would make everyone envy him again. On that same day he decided to propose to his girlfriend to become his wife. He bought a very beautiful and expensive ring for her.
Everything was ready for the celebration: a large number of guests were invited, a large banquet hall was prepared. And so the guests began to arrive. His girlfriend appeared. Before proposing to her, he decided to talk to her about it so everything would look perfect. But the girl started speaking first.
I can't be with you anymore. Forgive me.
But why? I wanted to propose to you today. Look at the ring I bought. Everyone will gasp in envy.
That's the problem...
I don't understand.
You're obsessed with self-admiration. You only do things that people could envy you for. And I don't even want to remember that you turned your back on your family. What if you become ashamed of me too, and then you'll abandon me as well?
She turned around and, without saying another word, left. And then our hero felt as if he'd been doused with cold water. And the girl was right. In pursuit of self-admiration he had hurt everyone he could. Without waiting for the end of the festive evening, he went home.
There he gathered all his gadgets and went to his relatives. He threw himself at his parents' feet and begged their forgiveness. He gave all his gadgets to his brothers and sisters and their children. That was the gift he gave for March 8th: the family was reunited.
Of course, his relatives forgave him. And the whole family lived again in peace and harmony. Our hero stopped spending his earned money meaninglessly. He gave part of his money to his parents and kept the rest for himself. But he began to spend it more thoughtfully.
One day on the street he ran into his former girlfriend. They decided to go to a café. While talking, the girl immediately noticed that her former boyfriend had changed greatly, both outwardly and inwardly. They began seeing each other again, and soon they got married. And they all lived happily.
Don't do things for show. And being ashamed of your loved ones is even more shameful.
